The main question any person can ask where are the sources or support for my needs

here starts the task of "balancing" to satisfy the main needs more to the left or more to the right or diferent configuration depending on age

what is the worst what could happen to to you - what can you relay on in the worst case;

can you feel love of  ... can you be alone with .... can you be confident that you are part of ... can you trust ... can you rely on your moral ...

after pondering on the questions above try to rebalance the diagram above